Dear Women,
I acknowledge the pain and suffering you have experienced, often at the hands of men. The oppression, the abuse physical and sexual, the violence, the burning at the stake, the rape and the degradation of your sexuality. On behalf of men’s nation I apologise unreservedly for our part in the countless atrocities you have suffered at the hands of men, or structures created by men.
I also acknowledge the subtle misogyny, objectification, sexualisation and threat of violence or aggression you experience every day and apologise for this too.
As a man and on behalf of my part men’s nation I take full responsibility for my part in this however large or small, now or at any other time in the future or past. I stand naked in my truth in full honour of you and everything women represent to me and say this:
PLEASE FORGIVE ME, I AM SORRY, THANK YOU, I LOVE YOU
I apologise for the “patriarchal” nightmare playing out that has robbed true women and men alike of their power. I also invite you to move beyond this paradigm we call “patriarchy” and recognise that it is about the abuse of power, regardless of whether the perpetrator or victim is a woman or man. Yes you can blame men or seek to direct your anger at men and our lineage but this will only serve to deepen the wounding between us and perpetuate the old story.
The time has come for a new paradigm that moves beyond this battle of genders and sees that we both are one. I invite you to recognise the ways that we have wounded each other, and take full ownership for our part in it. To move beyond the notion that women have been more wronged or men have been more wronged and see the simple truth that we both have deep wounds that need healing. Only by coming together with great empathy and compassion and loving each other can we receive what we each need to heal and transform ourselves on the inside, and our social structures on the outside.
I wish you well in your journey into power and magnificence and pray that you reach your fullest expression. I humbly ask that I may be invited to accompany you on the ride
As a companion who will do everything within his power to provide and protect you…
….who can be the banks of your river as you bring life giving flow to the land on the way to the ocean
…who can help to harness your highest dreams and visions and ground them with purpose
…and who can lay down everything he has in service of thriving life.
My heart yearns to be the consciousness that you trust to bare witness to your astounding and radiant beauty.